So this phrase “Purity is Possible“ has been on my heart and mind for quite sometime now (since second year I used to begin the semester by saying CHASTE2014) that doesn’t mean I am pure far from that. I am gradually and daily working towards it — But how do we tackle the issue of Purity in such a time as this? When this generation believes it is okay to tell a little lie, picking that is not really stealing, flirting is not really a sin, when sex has become a prerequisite of showing affection, a little fornication won’t kill you, fear of being tagged as the inexperienced one by your peers because you haven’t tried sex before and so on. How do we fight this?
How do we stay Pure in a generation with all these godless cultures?
First off, we must come to the terms with the fact that every sin is SIN so far as it contradicts with God’s ways, laws and commandments. Truth is our entire existence is challenged by the odd’s of wholeness — just being idle can’t make you pure or whole. A consistent working out of purity is necessary. Perhaps if we carry the thought of God in our minds then we will tremble at staining our purity and work towards being Holy.
Taking sexual sins for instance; Sex is about the Gospel, that is why sexual sin is frowned upon.“Sex is Holy” I don’t want to overstate it. This is an analogy, not an equation. But it’s a good, biblical analogy. There was something Holy taking place between husband and wife. It was sacred, special, unique. “Holy” has often been defined as “being set apart for special use.” Sex certainly fits that description. It is not for everybody. It is set aside for special use in marriage. Even though sex is about the physical touch, to be sure, but it is about far more than physical touch. It is about what is going on inside us. Which is why when there’s disobedience there are consequences (Open ourselves up for the devil to manipulate us, ungodly soul ties, unhealthy sexually transmitted diseases, getting pregnant and having to abort in cases of unwanted pregnancy).
Have you ever witnessed a repented thief or prostitute (sinner), hands lifted up in worship? Ever meditated on just how big of a deal it is that while you were at your worst, Jesus still loved you?
If you don’t understand Christianity, you may get really confused as to why people become emotional when it comes to the thought of God. What’s going on inside of them that thinking about some God up in heaven would make them weep? I learned over time by God’s grace working in my life; what people are celebrating is that while we were at our worst, Jesus still loved us. Being aware of how much you’ve been FORGIVEN
So this is to say that; If we become aware of how much we’ve been forgiven; won’t there be desperation for Purity?
Intimacy is hard for broken people. We need Jesus. We need his help. But when you’ve gotten closer and closer to the incredible reality that God chose you, forgave you, and approved of you despite your sin, all because of Jesus Christ, that grace is satisfying and empowering, and it can be carried over into the need for Purity. It can be carried over in the way you respond to every area of your life, confident and free because of Christ’s work in your life. It can be carried over in the way you forgive offense, sins and overlook his or her imperfections, as a way of sharing what God has given you.
As Christian’s we need to follow every earthly pleasure back to its source in the God who is the giver of every good thing ( James 1:17), that he might get the glory. And that is why sex is holy—it is meant to remind us of the God who gave it to us, who takes joy in union with his people. We don’t need to over spiritualize sex to see it this way; we just need to approach it the way the Bible ordained and be grateful for it. So then we will discipline ourselves to obey with regards to every form of sin and work towards Purity. (1 john 3:3)
The bible says that “It is with the mind that we serve the Lord” So my question is;
Do you ever think of your body as a holy temple of God?
Father, you tell me that I can and must glorify you in my body and every area of my life meaning my obedience counts. I believe that you have given sexuality to me as a gift. I may not always understand why you have done this because it does not always feel like a gift, it gets tough choosing to stay and remain pure. But I do understand that you are good and kind and that you love me. I pray that I would be a faithful steward of this gift, that in that final day you would look at how I have stewarded this gift and say to me, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”
Hope of a Life Spent With You
“Purity Is Possible”